Drama! Drama! Drama!

As usual around this time of year i've got some drama going on. My MIL is a good person, for the most part, but her and my mom seem to always be competing. Im not sure if it is competing, or just plain stupidity! Don't get me wrong, i love both my MIL and my momma, but they tend to make me and hubby dread the holidays! My MIL is always so indecisive about when she is going to have her holiday dinners. And my mom hates the fact that she can't make plans until MIL gets her plans straight. Last year was the worst it has ever been. My MIL was going to have her thanksgiving dinner on thanksgiving, so i told my mom, so she could have hers the following day. Well 3 days before thanksgiving my MIL changed her mind and wanted to have it the day after thanksgiving. When i told my mom she was so mad. I was mad too, but she took it to a whole other level of madness. She had been drinking, so that may have helped to fuel her fire. She, in front of my kids, began calling my MIL every name under the sun and a whole lot more. Her and i got into it for the simple fact that she was being mean and disrespectful of my MIL in front of my kids. It got worse from there. I said some things, she said some more things...blah blah blah. Her and i didn't talk for days. Then when i tried to contact her, she would hang up on me. Which of course made me mad. Christmas came around and when we went to my moms house for the kids gifts, my mom was stone cold drunk. I was so so mad! Then to top it off, she tried to kiss hubby. lol. Yeah i about knocked her out. Had it not been my mom i would have! lol. So we left and it was mid january before my mom and i talked.
So today my step dad called me asking what was going on for christmas. I told him i didn't know and that it was sorta up in the air as of now. He of course took that as my MIL hadn't decided yet. And began saying things like, "Well we aren't gonna have another repeat of next year and i hope she don't f*ck things up again." I had to bite my tongue. The last thing i want is another repeat of next year! Ugh...I think hubby, the kids and I need to just do our own thing for once. It is drama free that way.